THE MARRIAGE SHOE…

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This is my opinion on marriage,
“Marriage is like shoe. When you
wear
oversize be ready to drag it along
through out
life, and when you marry under-size
be ready
to feel the pains through out life.”
One thing about marriage is that you
don’t
drop your shoe or remove it at any
point no
matter how painful or how stressful
it is –
That is why I thought it necessary to
write
you this letter
Dear Singles,
When you are ready to buy your own
shoe
please take note of these three
things
1. Physical appearance: Do not look
for the
beautiful once, the nice once or the
cheap
once. Look for the one that is your
size.
Not every handsome, wealthy or
intelligent
guy is for you, not every beautiful
woman is
for you.
Look for the one that is meant for
you, the
once that aligns with your values and
belief,
the one who you meet at your life’s
journey.
***
It is important to know where you’re
going in
life before you think of getting a
wife.
***
2. Position: All sizes of shoes are
not placed in
the same place. There is a place for
cover
shoes, rope shoes, canvers, snickers
etc. We
have Children stresssfull, fresh , young people’s
sizes and
the adult size.
Know where to get your own shoe.
Your size
can not be everywhere my brother,
your type
cannot be everywhere my sister.
You cannot be a Muslim
and be
looking for a wife material at a club.
Your
wife or husband can’t just be
everywhere.
***
Stick to your values and therein you
shall find
someone like you, but when your
values are
not defined anyone can just match
you.
***
Discover yourself and define your
values
3. Perception: In this kind of shoe
purchasing
enterprise, you are not permitted to
try the
shoe before you buy.
This is why it is important to seek
guidance
and counseling, from people who
have bought
shoes before or are into the
business of
directing people to the right shoes
(clerics and Relationship
coaches)
***
And most importantly to avoid much
time
wasting time, simply consult the
shoe
manufacturer to tell you your size
(God
Almighty).
***
“You do not prepare for wedding, you
prepare
for marriage.”
Ladies these days get so motivated
when they
attend wedding and they will quickly
want to
say yes to that guy.
Wait!!! It is not just the wedding Ooh,
wedding is just one day. After the
wedding.
WHAT NEXT?

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Finally, it is not something you rush
to the
market and just pick a shoes
because you like
or can purchase it.
Ask questions
-Where is this shoe made from?
(Background)
-What’s the size (Values)
-How much (His/Her interest)
-How long will it last (His/Her
Character)
-Who made it? (Is she/He of the
same faith
This is compatibility)
-Will it match me? (This is whether
he/she
love you and will accept you the way
you are)
***
Dear one. Remember, many are
dragging their
foot and they would hardly reach
their
destinies, many are feeling endless
pains and
wish they could pull off the shoes
but no
way!!!
I have seen people with beautiful
shoes and
when they show you their foot, you
will see
scares.
Beloved, it is not about the physical,
it is the
size, you can’t know the size from
afar so
come close, build a relationship first
but
remember ‘you are not permitted to
try it
before you buy it’
And for those who have purchased
the wrong
shoes, you can still make it your size
again if
you’d consult the manufacturer and
let Him
have His way in your marriage.
Your fulfillment is my priority…….

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