“If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” – Wayne Dyer
Life does not have a universal measuring tool; so create yours and use it.
Looking at people and comparing yourself with them will not make you better but bitter. If you know the sort of load the chameleon carries, you wouldn’t ask why it takes those gentle strides.
A guy met one of his school mates several years after school and he could not believe his eyes; his friend was driving one of the latest sleek Mercedes Benz cars. He went home feeling awful and very disappointed in himself. He thought he was a failure. What he didn’t know was that his friend was a driver and had been sent on errand with his boss’s car.
Nothing is ever as it seems.
Somewhere out there is someone who will care for you properly, in every sense. Don’t throw yourself away on someone who won’t. It will damage your confidence and self esteem over the years, as well as make you unhappy.
So do yourself a favor and wait for someone better to come along. Don’t settle for less.
So, enjoy what you have and be grateful to God for it.
Not all that glitters is gold, live and be happy with what you have, everyone is going through one thing or the other.