“Man was created to lead and woman was created to manage in marriage or relationship”. This is one major concept of marriage and relationship that has gradually lost it’s place in our current marriages, where the man steers the relationship or chart the course with the help of the woman who manages the man and the home.
The truth is, women are not created to lead men or dictate to men when it comes to marriage or relationship. No matter the achievements or heights a woman will attain in life, still expects her to recognize the man as the head of the relationship. That doesn’t mean the man is more important than the woman but rather helps to bring order and sanity into the relationship. Two kings cannot rule a kingdom likewise two leaders can’t lead in an organization, one must lead and another must follow, by this, both can accomplish great things together.
Biblical headship doesn’t mean one is a boss and the other is the subordinate, no it rather mean recognizing one person to take the lead in charting the course of the relationship with the other person inspiring and encouraging him. But when women lose sight of this, they are tempted to act and be like someone they were not created to be and this has always led to most chaos and problems in present relationships. Women have their roles to play in building a successful relationship which is to manage their men, family resources and family but not to lead or manipulate the men.
If women were to embrace their roles and men were to assume their responsibilities things will change, and the break up and divorce rate will go down. Any marriage experts can see this as a major contribution to more instabilities in current marriages. Most men who marry are not well prepared on how they are to lead their partners with love and vision and most women who also enter into marriage do not know how they are to manage their husbands with respect, admiration and total submission. Learning is always the key.
AS A MAN, LEARN AND MASTER THE KEYS TO QUALITY LEADERSHIP AND AS A WOMAN LEARN THE KEYS TO MANAGING YOUR MAN AND YOUR HOME.
WHEN A MAN LOSES CONTROL IN HIS RELATIONSHIP, HE LOSES INTEREST IN IT.
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