” The way your partner treats a pet and others, tells how he or she will also treat you”. When you marry you marry with everything including your strength and weakness, good temperament and bad temperament, good manners and bad manners and etc. This is why it’s very important to know your partner and understand how he or she relates to others and situation.
It’s true that you can’t know everything about your partner before you marry but when you pray into his or her life enough God will allow certain situations to happen in your relationship which can help you know the kind of person you are going to stay with whether to proceed or retreat. Never ignore situations that happens in your relationship, they are clues to help you know the one you are about to commit your life to and most importantly the way he or she treats you, the relationship and others.
Never presume your partner can treat others badly and treat you with kindness. Whilst in a relationship, everyone try to put on his or her best to prove he or she is good enough to be with but only situation can reveal what is inside us to our partners. This is one reason you have to know the way your partner treats others like; parents, friends, co workers, pets, the weak, strangers and those who are under his or her care. Don’t ignore them thinking they will not treat you the way they treat others because of love, because most marriages are not surviving on love but rather on knowledge.
It’s very important to know how your partner unconsciously relates to others either by words or actions, it tells a lot about him or her. It will take x partners to allow their spouses to tell them certain negative attitude or areas in their lives that can affect their future marriage so that they can begin working on it. Arrogant and those with un teachable spirit are very difficult people to stay with, they can never make a good relationship, because they will always want to pursue their own course and do their own thing.
A VERY BEAUTIFUL LADY WAS QUARRELLING AND INSULTING HER DAD WHEN HER BOYFRIEND VISITED HER. INSTEAD OF THE GUY REBUKING HER, HE QUIETLY SAT DOWN TO WATCH THE DRAMA AND THOUGHT; “THAT’S HOW MY BABE BEHAVES WHEN SHE’S ANGRY BUT SHE WON’T DO THAT TO ME”. – THIS IS FOOLISH LOVE, YOUR TIME IS COMING.
THE WAY YOU TREAT YOUR PARTNER TELLS EVERYTHING- WHETHER YOU LOVE HIM OR HER.