” Dealing with the pattern of the blood line in your family before it stops you”. Many couples enter into marriage with the desire not to repeat the negative things they saw in their parents marriages. But honestly, having a desire is not enough to break a generational pattern. Consider this biblical example of generational pattern
Abraham and Sarah had a great difficulty in getting a child, in fact it took them so many years to have Isaac, Isaac and Rebecca also experience delay in child birth before getting Easu and Jacob were born, and finally Jacob and the woman he greatly love Rachael also had some difficulties and delay in child birth. These were generational sequence taking place in their lives from one generational to the other without their knowledge.
These were people who were walking with God in obedience but the generational pattern was still in operation from one generation to another. Honestly, the negative patterns in every family tends to surface more than the positive ones. Whatever the reason for these I don’t know but I think God wants us to know them and deal against them so that they will cease from operating.
Being a Christian will not immune you from these patterns if you refuse to consciously deal with them, and also marrying a person who is active in church activities will also not nullify their family generational pattern. Before you marry, kindly look into your family and the family of your potential mate and trace any generational pattern that has the power to affect your future marriage and begin dealing with it. Some families generational pattern are chronic illness, unstable marriage, marry and remarry, deviant lifestyle, delay in child birth, limitations in life, children with disabilities, unfaithfulness and many more
OPENING YOUR EYES TO SEE INTO YOUR FAMILY AND THE FAMILY OF YOUR POTENTIAL MATE WILL GREATLY HELP YOU DEAL WITH MANY THINGS THAT CAN FIGHT YOUR MARRIAGE TOMORROW.
YOU DON’T ONLY MARRY A PERSON, YOU MARRY ONE WITH A FAMILY HISTORY.