” What is normal to women is abnormal to men and what is normal to men is abnormal to women”. You can frequently hear ladies act and say certain things and claim they are normal but to their guys it isn’t normal. You can also hear guys do certain things and claim it’s normal but with the women it isn’t normal.
Honestly, it’s only in our present age that we hear both guys and ladies making such comments and opinions. It’s true that men and women don’t think alike but when it comes to relationship building, much is expected from both to do the right thing. People don’t expect their partners to be perfect, they only expects them to know the right thing and to do it.
One problem with this “normal and abnormal” issue is that most couples don’t know who their partners are, what they like or dislike, where they are coming from or how they see and interpret things especially when it comes to relationship building. Most couples wants to handle their relationships with their partners like they are still single and still wants to enjoy their singleness. When a partner acts like that there is always a problem with priorities and commitment. In fact, these are the two areas in relationship that no couple will tolerate or permit their partners to act in certain ways and claim things to be normal. When it comes to areas like this couples expects their partners to do what is right and not how they feel or think.
ANYONE WHO DOESN’T KNOW HOW TO PRIORITIZE HIS OR HER RELATIONSHIP AND SHOW UNWAVERING COMMITMENT WILL ALWAYS HAVE ISSUES IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP.
HANDLING YOUR RELATIONSHIP BY THE WAY YOU THINK OR FEEL WILL ONLY DETERIORATE IT AND NOT BUILD IT.
Chapter 3 coming soon