Every marriage counselor or expert faces similar challenges like any other marriage couples do. They sometimes experience challenges that break them down, letting them know that knowledge, experience and skills is not enough.
Besides their knowledge, experiences and skills they have a Prayer Room where they deal with issues that are beyond their knowledge and understanding. Don’t sit down and wait when your relationship or marriage is going through hell before you get a Prayer Room, start now!
I do understand and share with dating couples when they go through a lot of unnecessary challenges, break ups and troubling issues in their relationships because whilst I was dating I also went through similar things.
I’d fight, argue and quarrel with my wife during our dating years to the extent of thinking our relationship can’t work and that she was the cause of our unhappy relationship.
But glory be to God, I had a Prayer Room. This Prayer Room greatly helped me discover that the real person causing the problems and challenges in our relationships wasn’t my partner but rather the enemy.
This discovery of the Prayer Room has greatly changed and influenced our marriage and I want to share with you some important benefits you will find as you set up a Prayer Room for your relationship or marriage.
1) IF YOU ARE SINGLE, PRAYER ROOM WILL LEAD YOU TO THE RIGHT PERSON
If you want to find the right person God has for you, then please don’t try leading yourself because you will get it wrong. Most young men and women are struggling in their relationships because they led themselves into it. They followed the beauty, charisma, certificates and money and are now regretting.
Prayer Room is where you talk to God daily to lead you to the right person He has for you if you are still single. And remember God will not give you a rich man but rather a righteous man who is rich with Him and has positive qualities to help you become all that God created you to be and enjoy your relationship.
And for a guy He will not lead you to a beautiful woman polished with make ups with fake personality but rather a virtuous woman who will respect and love you just as you are. He or she might not be perfect but will help you become the best.
2) PRAYER ROOM WILL HELP YOU IDENTIFY YOUR REAL ENEMY
Most people think it’s their partners who don’t want the good of their relationships or marriages. They keep fighting and arguing with their partners and yet nothing changes.
The Prayer Room will open your eyes to see the real enemy of your relationship who wants to steal, kill and destroy the joy, happiness and peace in relationship or marriage. Therefore, instead of being against your partner, you will then direct it against the enemy of your relationship life.
3) PRAYER ROOM ALLOWS GOD TO MOVE AND INFLUENCE YOUR RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE
Prayer is involving God into the affairs of men. Therefore, when you resort to prayer, you are giving God the permission to work in your relationship or marriage. And remember there are certain battles only God can handle. Prayer Room gives you the opportunity to give those battles to God.
Prayer is the only means you can surrender your relationship or marriage into God’s hands and tell Him to influence it the way that seems best to Him. Doing this allows God to fight for you and do for you what you cannot do for yourself. This allows God’s grace to work on your behalf to save your relationship or marriage.
4) PRAYER ROOM WILL CHANGE YOU FROM THE INSIDE OUT
There’s no way you can be visiting God’s presence in your Prayer Room and still remain the same. God’s presence convicts us with God’s word and changes us to be like Him. And also there are certain things about you that only God can change, prayer room allows this to happen.
If it’s our attitude that is destroying our relationships, God’s Spirit uses God’s word to open our eyes to see our short comings and thereby ask for grace to overcome our weaknesses.
5) PRAYER ROOM CHANGES AND INFLUENCES OUR PARTNERS POSITIVELY
You need to understand that you cannot change your partner, only God can. Trying to change your partner will be a losing battle coupled with frustrations. Therefore surrender your partner to God to work on him or her.
Most people destroy their relationships because they only focus and complain about their partner’s attitude instead of giving their partners up to God in prayer. When you pray daily for your partner, you allow God to work on him or her for the betterment of your relationship or marriage.
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PRAYER ROOM CAN DO FOR YOU WHAT YOU CAN’T DO FOR YOURSELF.