I can honestly say that and mean it this year. The reason why it’s been hard to appreciate mothers day for the last few years is because i was not raised by my real mum and the kindda mother son love is not there, even now, as some of you may know, my granny raise me and she has been the only woman av known in my life, and i can boldly say she’s part of the reason why i don’t have a girlfriend even now, cos av not met any woman who could love me for me, but unfortunately she died in 2007, just when i was few years away to show her how proud and appreciative i am to her unconditional love she gave me, This is the first Mother’s Day in 6 years that I didn’t wake up in tears, that I didn’t wake up heavy, that I didn’t wake up in sadness.
This morning I woke up in joy and full of gratitude. I’m so thankful for the 20years that I had with her. I know that a lot of people didn’t get that much time with their mothers. So, God thank you for Marry Abena Beyi and for the 20 years of memories that are in my heart forever. Thank you for the love I still feel all around me from her. I hope you know how proud I was, and still am, that you were my mamma. I love and miss you Maame.
Again I say, to all of you with mothers who are alive, and you find yourself fighting or bickering over nonsense or something major, find a way to fix it. Don’t let someone you love slip away from this earth, and you have had a chance to say all you needed to say to them and you didn’t. It’s just not worth it. Swallow your pride, even if you know you are in the right. Say you’re sorry and fix it. And if you’re in the wrong, all the more reason to say you’re sorry and mean it. Say you were wrong. Why is it so hard for people to say they were wrong? I promise you, you won’t die if you say, “I was wrong.” Fix it please. Life is but a moment, and we all only get one mother. I assure you, if you take this advice it will go a long way in you having peace in your future. and i am going to do it too, You know I love you.
Credit Tyler Perry