Written by Counselor Adofoli
Sometimes it’s disguising to hear what this world of ours is turning into. We have suddenly forgotten our lives and the world we live in is not ours. We are just visitors here and one day, we will leave.
The truth is, we all know our birth day but none of us knows our death day. The scary part is you don’t know when you will be called, so why don’t you make the best of everything you do here on earth?
One of the terms I kept hearing was “Side chick”. In other words, a mistress or another woman apart from a wife; a position allocated to a girl who is neither a wife nor a girlfriend but just a side dish.
Others describe it as “Girls you have sex with occasionally while looking for the one you want to go out with”.
Someone may ask, why on earth will a lady want to be a “Side chick”? Helloooooooooooooooooo
Does that mean she doesn’t know her value? Yes, that’s the perfect answer. The good book says “A worthy woman who can find? For her price is far above rubies” – Proverbs 31:10 (ASV).
I want you to know, a pretty lady is nothing if she has an ugly heart; a woman who is not led by God. Any woman not led by God doesn’t know her true value, therefore she can easily discount herself for a man or present herself as an item reduced to clear.
My question to all ladies out there: “why settle for half a man when you can have your own full man? Do you think it’s cute messing around with another woman’s man? Learn to give to the next woman’s relationship the same respect you would want her to give yours.
In this life, you don’t need to be a “Side Check”, someone to sleep with, someone you have to beg to see you, someone you have to beg to share his life with, someone who leaves you for his family, someone who hides you, someone who has made the hotel a home for you, someone who leaves you with shame and guilt, someone who leads you to sin and destruction.
Your soul is more important than lavish gifts, bills paid, and the two-minute sex-sessions you get from being a side chick. “What will you gain, if you own the whole world but destroy yourself?” – Mark 8:36 (CEV)
You need your own husband, your own man, someone who has your back, someone who will go to war with you. You are too old for games. Take it from me, don’t love someone who is already in love or married, when you do that, it’s like buying a gun loaded with unlimited bullets to shoot yourself. No matter the situation never, let your emotions overpower your intelligence.
In conclusion “Treat others as you want them to treat you. This is what the Law and the Prophets are all about” – Matthew 7:12 (CEV).
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